My Top Five Tips to be Transformed into a Successful Sugar Baby
So, you’ve decided to be a Sugar Baby, but you’re not sure how you can proceed? Or maybe you’re considering being a Sugar Baby, but would like to know more about it? Well, you’ve arrived at the ! I am excited to become your guide into the world of sugar dating. Sugar dating refers to a mutually beneficial arrangement between, usually, a wealthy, older man referred to as a Sugar Daddy and a young, attractive woman, referred to as a Sugar Baby. In Internet and text-speech, you’ll often see it referred to as SD/SB relationships or arrangements. While many think the relationship is built around intercourse and for some this might be true, this is not standard, and Sugar Babies should not be viewed as high class escorts,prostitutes, or courtesans. In fact, truly legit sugar dating sites, forbid these types from joining and have options reporting it, if one slips by. A SD/SB relationship is based on the idea that everyone benefits from the relationship. Being a prosperous Sugar Baby means going beyond being another pretty face with expensive tastes, and today, I’m willing to cover 5 tips for transforming yourself into the best possible Sugar Baby.
Be the Best You
While it might seem like a smart idea to try and be flexible, like a chameleon, and become whatever you think each POT SD wants, it’ll be hard to maintain a false image. Most Sugar Daddies are incredibly wealthy older men, who are experienced with fakes of all kinds. They can see clearly when anyone, let alone an aspiring Sugar Baby isn’t being honest. Whatever type of Sugar Baby you are, daring or shy, blonde or redhead, femme fatale or humble girl-next-door, there’s someone that wants that kind of Sugar Baby. It’s best to make a decision on who the absolute best you is and choose that persona as you develop your online Sugar Baby image. For example, if you do choose to present yourself as modest and wholesome, it’s a bad idea to show up to your first date with a POT Sugar Daddy in stiletto heels, minidress with a plunging neckline, and heavy make-up.
It might be tempting to take the first proposal that you receive from an interested Sugar Daddy because of a fear that there might not be any other offers. Sometimes new Sugar Babies are tempted to accept a lowball offer so as not to appear money grubbing or merely because it looks like the most way to go. However, while a Sugar Baby shouldn’t act entitled let alone desperate, just like mundane dating, sugar dating requires you to look for a Sugar Daddy that not only meets your needs, but is someone that you can fulfill, too. If it’s going to be a chore for you to hang out with a particular gentleman, he’s sure to realize it eventually and drop you. It’s better to go slowly and find a truly appropriate Sugar Daddy, so you aren’t squandering your time and his.
Always Be Honest
The biggest advantage to sugar dating for a wealthy older man is that it is uncomplicated, efficient, and hassle-free. If he was interested in having to guess about what a woman wanted, he wouldn’t be trying to find a Sugar Baby. This is especially true of wealthy older men who are very successful and very overloaded businessmen and entrepreneurs, whose results are generated by efficiency. These types of eligible Sugar Daddies don’t have enough time or the inclination to play guessing games trying to figure out what his pretty Sugar Baby wants. Like any other good business arrangements, the expectations should be put out from day one, so everyone in the mutually beneficial relationship knows their role.
Specify, Specify, Specify!
Once you come across a Sugar Daddy that meets your needs and has needs that you are willing to fulfill, you should detail the terms of your mutually beneficial arrangement. Sometimes, there may be other matters to think about, including the best ways to contact your Sugar Daddy and if you should contact him directly at all, when and where you meet, and the duration of the relationship. A few other points to work out are what your recompense will be, how frequently will you receive recompense, and if gifts are expected. You might, also, want to consider if there are things that might be grounds for termination of the relationship. For the Sugar Baby this might include late allowance payments, partial payments, or unusual requests, while for the Sugar Daddy it might consist of excessive last-minute cancellations, cheating, or unreasonable or inappropriate requests.
Maintain High Standards
It’s typical that after an extended period of time during normal dating that a couple becomes comfortable enough to get lazy about things that they once put more attention into such as personal grooming, attire, states of their bedroom/bathroom, and not responding promptly to texts, calls, or emails. A Sugar Daddy who has made a financial commitment with a young Sugar Baby, can decide to end the arrangement, if he feels you aren’t meeting the expectations that were agreed upon or grew to be expected. If you’ve set yourself as a femme fatale, you can’t open the door in a tacky t-shirt and sweatpants with messy hair. However, you should be accepting if he becomes relaxed enough to loosen up in your presence, and you can be guided by his cues on whether it’s okay for you to act casually, too. But certainly never scold him about his aesthetics or responses to calls, texts, or emails.
If you follow these points and other safe dating strategies, you should be able to successfully navigate the sugar bowl, and find one or even more Sugar Daddies to provide for your needs. Hopefully, these particular tips have helped your start to finding a suitable SD/SB relationship. If you have more questions, come back as I expand on these tips to help you be a successful Sugar Baby.