Are You And Your Sugar Baby Compatible?
Of all the factors that contribute to the success or failure of a relationship, compatibility is probably one of the most important. All factors being equal, a relationship in which both partners are compatible with each other have a higher chance of success than a relationship in which the partners have little in common. There are other factors that determine the success or failure of a relationship to be sure, but compatibility is one of the most crucial.
The thing about compatibility is that it can’t really be determined until the relationship is well and truly underway. Although early rapport (or lack thereof) may indicate the degree of compatibility of both partners with each other, it is only after they have spent considerable time together under various circumstances when an accurate determination of their compatibility can be assessed.
It is also difficult to determine how and why a particular couple clicks with each other. A sugar daddy and a sugar baby may it hit off remarkably well, and yet another couple may not be able to stand the sight of each other even though similar factors and circumstances are in place. A couple may also seem highly compatible with each other at the start of the relationship only to drift apart later on down the line.
The benefits of compatibility
When the sugar daddy and the sugar baby are compatible with each other, the relationship can be remarkably harmonious and easy going. There is little or no stress involved, and the partners can be free to be their own person without having to tiptoe around the other for fear of offending or turning off the other person.
A couple that is compatible with each other will also have the same or a similar general outlook, which could translate into many other areas of their relationship, and even their lives. They tend to like the same things and have the same interests, and there is a general air of positivity in the relationship.
Perhaps one of the most significant benefits of a relationship in which both partners are compatible is that it is largely drama-free. While a certain degree of friction and even conflict are healthy in any relationship, a sugar dating relationship in which drama is a constant factor can’t be fun. Focus your efforts on finding a partner with whom you mesh, and you can be assured of a smoother and more peaceful relationship.
When a couple doesn’t ‘mesh’
Trouble in a relationship often stems from partners being unable to mesh or bond with each other. With couples that aren’t compatible with each other, there is no point of reference–no common ground upon which to build any type of significant relationship. They therefore tend to focus mostly on each other, which places undue strain on the relationship. Over time, the friction develops to intolerable levels, and conflict is bound to erupt.
Not all relationships involving incompatible partners are doomed to fail. A number of relationships in which the partners have little or nothing in common may turn out to be surprisingly resilient. It has to be said however that such unions often benefit from partners that have a considerable amount of tolerance and affinity for each other. They can therefore look beyond the need for deeper aspects of incompatibility and focus on the bond that they have with each other, as trivial and shallow as it may seem.
What can be done
Obviously, there is little you can do to improve compatibility with your partner after you have found that you aren’t exactly a match for each other. You could make an effort to meet each other halfway of course, and to find some common ground upon which you can have a mutually respectful relationship. Given sufficient maturity and a willingness to see the relationship through each other’s eyes, you may be able to live with each other’s differences, enough to form a solid and lasting relationship together,
Generally speaking however, incompatibility issues are best nipped in the bud. The time to make a determination as to whether or not you are compatible with your sugar baby is at the start, before you even begin to establish a relationship together.
The importance of finding out about each other’s personalities cannot be overstated enough. Get to know each other thoroughly at the start and be honest assessment of your partner. Taking the time to do this can help you avoid a lot of hassle later on.
What can’t be done
Perhaps the worst way to deal with incompatibility is to force your partner to conform to your standards, whether consciously or subconsciously. Your inability to see your partner for what she is–and further, your refusal to accept that–does not give you a license to bend her to your will.
Remember that this is a living, breathing human being you are dealing with here–not some automaton or love slave that you can program according to your wishes. If you simply can’t deal with the incompatibilities between you, it will be better to put an end to the relationship rather than to play the role of a tyrant.
In the same way, you also don’t want to change your personality just to conform to someone’s idea of how a sugar daddy should be. Trying to save a relationship by changing some crucial aspects of your personality rarely ever comes to any good, and you are bound to resent your partner over time. You could even end up hating yourself, which will not bode well for your self-esteem. Have enough self-respect to put your foot down when it comes to preserving the most important facets of who you are and you will appreciate yourself for it.
Compatibility is not the only important thing in a relationship, but it definitely helps. Get to know your sugar baby before you make a commitment, and try to ensure that you are indeed compatible with each other, and not just being swayed by the initial excitement of the relationship.