Step 6: Research

Any young woman who throws herself into online dating should be careful and able to take care of her own security needs. Although you may be dealing with older, wealthy men who are usually cultured gentlemen, the same rule applies to sugar dating.

Research is an essential skill and asset for a Sugar Baby, especially before agreeing to meet with supposedly rich older men. While it may surprise you to read this, the truth is men are the way they are, and most people lie online. Sugar Daddies aren’t any different in that aspect.

Important details that men passing as Sugar Daddies online lie about include who they are, the position they hold in the company they work for, their income and their appearance. Your Job, as a smart and resourceful Sugar Baby, is to verify as much of the information that he included in his profile and gave you privately as you possibly can.

It is very likely that you find inconsistencies in his profile, his story and the information the internet can provide about him. This is unfortunate but true, and you will have to figure out whether the information he lied about is important to you or not.

It might be okay to confront your Sugar Daddy with his lies, in some cases, but if the lies are deal-breakers for you, then maybe the best way to handle the issue is to end the relationship. There are plenty of Sugar Daddies who don’t live up to our expectations, so you need to be prepared to accept that and move on.

Here are my tips for safe sugar dating, and which I advise you to do before agreeing on any face-to-face meetings with Sugar Daddies:

  1. Gather as much information as you can on the sugar dating website. Most sugar dating websites are quite strict about security and identity verification, so one of the first steps you should take is checking if your prospective Sugar Daddy has a Verified profile – even before you start or respond to a chat with him.
  1. Check the photos. If your sugar dating website has a photo or vídeo verification process, it will display a badge next to the profile or photo of the Sugar Daddy. If you chose a website that doesn’t use this feature, you can also use Google Images to research his profile pictures and hopefully find out if he has stolen the pictures he’s using to pass as someone else.
  1. Use social media. It may seem stalkerish, but trying to compare a Sugar Daddy’s profile to his social media presence is a very good way to find out whether he is who he claims to be. Social media profiles can tell you a lot about this man: you can check his Facebook or Instagram to see if he’s used the same photos or biography, and you can also find out things like his relationship status, how he interacts with other people and if he flirts with other young women on social media. Some wealthy people keep their social profiles private for privacy reasons, but it doesn’t hurt to try and take a look.
  1. Use other dating platforms. It can sometimes be hard to find someone on the web based on their name alone, since some names are certainly more common than others. You can try searching your Sugar Daddy through another dating service, as they sometimes make connections across several platforms. As a bonus, you can once again find out if he’s putting himself out there for women, or even other types of dating.
  1. Get a background check. Your safety is very important, so it may be worth paying a Professional to dig up as much information about your potential Sugar Daddy as possible, especially since wealthier people tend to keep their secrets very well hidden. A private investigator or an investigation service can provide you with anything from information about the IP address where the sugar dating profile is accessed, to his real name, age, location, previous locations, previous relationships, finances and even his criminal record, all of which can help protect your safety. This last one should, in fact, be a deal-breaker, so you’ll be glad you uncovered the information, even if you lose funds in the process.

This is a lot of information to process, and it’s understandable if overwhelms you, but rich men do keep a lot of secrets, and those passing as rich men online are usually up to no good.

So the lesson to be learned here is that you should take your time and be as sure as possible about the identity of your Sugar Daddy before you agree to meet him. This will allow you to take your relationship at a more normal pace and also prevent you from looking or being too eager, which is a turn off for several men.

If you find out that a Sugar Daddy is pretending to be someone else, then you should definitely stop engaging with him, and expose him to other Sugar Babies, maybe even report his profile to the website’s admins. You should also take notes about what led you to uncover his true identity, so that you have a better chance at avoiding making the same mistake twice.

If your Sugar Daddy’s information truly checks out, and you feel like your connection is good enough, then you may agree to meet him. You need to make sure you feel ready and confident of your decision before taking this step, though.

Even if your Sugar Daddy turns out to be a squeaky clean, perfect older gentleman, you should still insist on having your first date at a public location. Having him take you to the park, a restaurant or an artistic event is a good idea.

Take notes of your first date and pay close attention to his behavior, but don’t forget to have a good time in his company, if at all possible. Leaving your first date with good memories is a great indication about the future of your relationship, so you should both make an effort for that to happen.

That is what the next step is all about – Becoming his official Sugar Baby. If you’ve reached that stage, then you will certainly love the next article. Make you sure you don’t miss it when I come back and tell you all you need to know about this step!

Any young woman who throws herself into online dating should be careful and able to take care of her own security needs. Although you may be dealing with older, wealthy men who are usually cultured gentlemen, the same rule applies to sugar dating.

Research is an essential skill and asset for a Sugar Baby, especially before agreeing to meet with supposedly rich older men. While it may surprise you to read this, the truth is men are the way they are, and most people lie online. Sugar Daddies aren’t any different in that aspect.

Important details that men passing as Sugar Daddies online lie about include who they are, the position they hold in the company they work for, their income and their appearance. Your Job, as a smart and resourceful Sugar Baby, is to verify as much of the information that he included in his profile and gave you privately as you possibly can.

It is very likely that you find inconsistencies in his profile, his story and the information the internet can provide about him. This is unfortunate but true, and you will have to figure out whether the information he lied about is important to you or not.

It might be okay to confront your Sugar Daddy with his lies, in some cases, but if the lies are deal-breakers for you, then maybe the best way to handle the issue is to end the relationship. There are plenty of Sugar Daddies who don’t live up to our expectations, so you need to be prepared to accept that and move on.

Here are my tips for safe sugar dating, and which I advise you to do before agreeing on any face-to-face meetings with Sugar Daddies:

  1. Gather as much information as you can on the sugar dating website. Most sugar dating websites are quite strict about security and identity verification, so one of the first steps you should take is checking if your prospective Sugar Daddy has a Verified profile – even before you start or respond to a chat with him.
  1. Check the photos. If your sugar dating website has a photo or vídeo verification process, it will display a badge next to the profile or photo of the Sugar Daddy. If you chose a website that doesn’t use this feature, you can also use Google Images to research his profile pictures and hopefully find out if he has stolen the pictures he’s using to pass as someone else.
  1. Use social media. It may seem stalkerish, but trying to compare a Sugar Daddy’s profile to his social media presence is a very good way to find out whether he is who he claims to be. Social media profiles can tell you a lot about this man: you can check his Facebook or Instagram to see if he’s used the same photos or biography, and you can also find out things like his relationship status, how he interacts with other people and if he flirts with other young women on social media. Some wealthy people keep their social profiles private for privacy reasons, but it doesn’t hurt to try and take a look.
  1. Use other dating platforms. It can sometimes be hard to find someone on the web based on their name alone, since some names are certainly more common than others. You can try searching your Sugar Daddy through another dating service, as they sometimes make connections across several platforms. As a bonus, you can once again find out if he’s putting himself out there for women, or even other types of dating.
  1. Get a background check. Your safety is very important, so it may be worth paying a Professional to dig up as much information about your potential Sugar Daddy as possible, especially since wealthier people tend to keep their secrets very well hidden. A private investigator or an investigation service can provide you with anything from information about the IP address where the sugar dating profile is accessed, to his real name, age, location, previous locations, previous relationships, finances and even his criminal record, all of which can help protect your safety. This last one should, in fact, be a deal-breaker, so you’ll be glad you uncovered the information, even if you lose funds in the process.

This is a lot of information to process, and it’s understandable if overwhelms you, but rich men do keep a lot of secrets, and those passing as rich men online are usually up to no good.

So the lesson to be learned here is that you should take your time and be as sure as possible about the identity of your Sugar Daddy before you agree to meet him. This will allow you to take your relationship at a more normal pace and also prevent you from looking or being too eager, which is a turn off for several men.

If you find out that a Sugar Daddy is pretending to be someone else, then you should definitely stop engaging with him, and expose him to other Sugar Babies, maybe even report his profile to the website’s admins. You should also take notes about what led you to uncover his true identity, so that you have a better chance at avoiding making the same mistake twice.

If your Sugar Daddy’s information truly checks out, and you feel like your connection is good enough, then you may agree to meet him. You need to make sure you feel ready and confident of your decision before taking this step, though.

Even if your Sugar Daddy turns out to be a squeaky clean, perfect older gentleman, you should still insist on having your first date at a public location. Having him take you to the park, a restaurant or an artistic event is a good idea.

Take notes of your first date and pay close attention to his behavior, but don’t forget to have a good time in his company, if at all possible. Leaving your first date with good memories is a great indication about the future of your relationship, so you should both make an effort for that to happen.

That is what the next step is all about – Becoming his official Sugar Baby. If you’ve reached that stage, then you will certainly love the next article. Make you sure you don’t miss it when I come back and tell you all you need to know about this step!

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