Dating Guide

Your 10 Step Guide to Becoming a Sugar Daddy

As a beautiful young woman, you have probably heard about sugar dating from your friends or the Internet at least once. There are many rumors but little information out there though, so it’s perfectly normal for you to be confused about what sugar dating is and how you could enter this glamorous world.

I wrote this guide for girls like you, who want to be Sugar Babies but have no idea where to start or what to do. I’ve been there, and I had to learn on my own, but I will guide you step-by-step, so you can enjoy sugar dating from the very beginning. Today I’ll give you an overview of each step, then we’ll go over them in detail.


Step 1: Decide What You Really Want and Need

You might want to throw yourself into sugar dating head on, but taking this step first will save you a lot of time and heartache in the near and distant future.

There are several questions you should ask yourself before trying to enter the world of sugar dating, as they will help you figure out if this really is the life you want, and what kinds of relationships you’ll be seeking.

Aspects you should definitely consider are what you want and need in life, as well as what you are willing to give to your Sugar Daddy, whether it is time, attention, an emotional connection or a physical relationship.

Considering aspects like these will help you decide what kind of Sugar Baby you want to be, and that is the most important decision to make.


Step 2: Selecting Sugar Dating Sites and Creating a Profile

There are many sugar dating websites to choose from, but they all have different rules and purposes. Some of them are completely free for Sugar Babies to join and enjoy, and that could be a good place to start if your resources are limited, others are more exclusive and charge fees for all members.

Some sugar dating websites look and are more legitimate than others, so that’s also something to keep in mind. Try to find reviews online before you sign up, and steer clear of any sites that give you the wrong vibe.

It isn’t a good idea to put all of your eggs in one sugar dating basket, so I’d suggest that you sign up for several free websites at first, until you find your footing and some Sugar Daddies to connect with.

Speaking of Sugar Daddies, you must know that there are fewer of them than us. Seasoned Sugar Daddies will stick to one website, but they might also already have made connections with other Babies, so it’s best that you experiment with different sites to increase your chances of finding a match.

You will have to create a profile on each website you sign up for, and it’s best if they are consistent. Try to project yourself exactly as you want to be seen, but keep your texts short and sweet, so that Daddies don’t lose interest. Don’t forget to highlight the details that make you special, as those will set you apart from other Sugar Babies.

Checking out the competition is also a good idea. Take notes from the profiles that are popular and avoid copying those that are clearly not working .


Step 3: Be Organized

An organized Sugar Baby is a successful Sugar Baby, so I cannot stress the importance of this step nearly enough.

While everyone knows sugar dating isn’t necessarily exclusive right from the beginning, it would definitely be a big mistake to call a Sugar Daddy by the wrong name or make a reference that is meant for someone else, so you better keep all of your information straight at all times.

One effective way to do this is to keep a spreadsheet of all the Sugar Daddies you’re in contact with. It should include their real names, usernames, profession, income, interests and website where you contact each other, at least. This will help you remember which Sugar Daddies you want to keep around, and which ones you have already discarded.

Later on, you can also use these spreadsheets to take notes about dates and their performances, to evaluate the potential of a more permanent relationship.


Step 4: Making First Contact and Crafting the Right Message

No matter who has reached out first, you need to make an impression the first time you exchange messages with a Sugar Daddy.

Make your message personal, referencing their profile so that they know you are aware of them, but try to insert some of your own personality, as well.

Sugar Daddies are usually rich, worldly men, so they expect their Sugar Babies to be well-educated and mild-mannered. Using correct grammar and a polite tone will go a long way in the world of sugar dating.

Remember, you are one of many Sugar Babies competing for the attention of few Sugar Daddies, so attention to detail is an invaluable asset.


Step 5: Second Contact: The Phone Call

After engaging successfully with a Sugar Daddy online, you might think you have found a match. Before you meet in person though, you should arrange a phone or vídeo call to test your real-life chemistry.

Neither you nor the Daddy can afford the luxury of careful thought or choosing your words during a real-time call, so it’s a great way to see if your connection is real and avoid a very awkward first date in the off-chance that it isn’t.


Step 6: Research, Research, Research

Meeting a Sugar Daddy in person can be very exciting, but you can’t rush into it, for your own safety.

Try to verify as much of the information he gave you online as possible before agreeing to meet, so you can be sure that he really is who he claims to be. It is also a good idea to check for a criminal record, if at all possible.  It is okay to confront him with any inconsistencies you find, but if they are deal-breakers, then it is best to just walk away from the relationship.


Step 7: Weeding Out the Rejects

You will encounter many Sugar Daddies online, but make real connections with very few. The reasons why connections might be broken are various, but you need to say no and mean it when the time comes. You need to put yourself, your security interests first, so be firm and move on.


Step 8: Preparing for the First Date

If a Sugar Daddy has ticked all of your boxes so far, then it is time for your first date.

You should carry yourself on your first date as you did online and in previous contacts. You should also avoid looking fake and create an image you are capable and willing to keep up with on future meetings.

Make sure that the date takes place somewhere public, and also that you have your own means of transportation, so you don’t have to give your address to him and can leave quickly if needed.

The best mentality to take on your first date to hope for the best but plan for the worst.


Step 9: Making an Official Arrangement

If the connection proves to be good, then you should discuss the terms of your agreement formally. The Sugar Daddy should be willing to meet your needs upfront, while you should be able to assure him you will keep your end of the bargain.


Step 10: Keeping your Sugar Daddy

Sugar dating relationships do end, much like traditional ones, so you should always be prepared for that to happen.

The best way to keep your Sugar Daddy happy and the mutually beneficial agreement working is to be pleasant, on time and appropriately dressed. You should also follow through with all the terms you agreed to, otherwise you might find yourself back in the dating pool and having to go through these steps again.